The life is gonna play it's role always. Sometimes it is heavier on you while sometimes you feel yourself to be heavier on it whereas sometimes our partner in crime or good friend get closes or far from us due to its variations respective to time.
The College:
Everybody has their own memory and values related to college duration. But having good friends, teachers in this duration also based on the mood of life. Fortunately, during my college days life is little pitiful to me as I learnt a lot which I am realizing now. What I was kind a shy and introvert person before coming to college and what I become during this precious 4 years.
Everybody has their own memory and values related to college duration. But having good friends, teachers in this duration also based on the mood of life. Fortunately, during my college days life is little pitiful to me as I learnt a lot which I am realizing now. What I was kind a shy and introvert person before coming to college and what I become during this precious 4 years.
The thing is that when I was in college during that time tension was there but at the lower level of how to concentrate in studies, how that girl could start smiling on my smile etc. The level increases as per the time, during final years life want us to start looking for job, even you are not ready you have to run in this race. We started as it is trending, but what life makes me understand that some one got jobs in the first attempt while for someone life gives more deadly and very struggling surprises to getting the same. College diaries if I start writing, it will be long which is full of friends, fun, culture, love and wonderful memories. The college itself nourishing us to slightly make us independent and ready to face our next phase of life.
The Job:
Yes my life seems like already had decided to pull me in the more learning environment. Short in six semester average by 0.25℅ is making me out of syllabus at the time of campus placement which later covered up with adding next two semesters. After being passed out in 2012, my slate was blank, I could create many structures in that like preparation for IT companies, government exams etc. Life also seeing your background in this settlement process, if your backend is strong enough of having established business family you don't need to worry about anything. Your skills, pressure, challenges will get change and your earnings can start easily. One boy has father who is working in jwellery shop, that boy after passing out start looking for a job. Eventually after not getting success in having a job he decided to join his father's business. While another boy whose father is himself a employee, he should have to have a job even his mood permit or not. Like wise in case of girls, I saw many girls who were searching a job with me at that time but when they get tired of initial failures or don't want to struggle more for job they have a very golden option to tell their parent to initiate her proposal for marriage. Many of such girls are get settled in abroad of-course without having a job, Also I saw a girls who belongs to well settled family, for them doing job is not a necessity but they have to be stand on their own, they do not get afraid of initial failures, they fight for it and ultimately they get what they want. We cant blame LIFE for it. Time and luck are two important aspects of life without which no one can survive even someone is billionare or a jobless. For my cases I searched job in Indore, life said NO, I then searched in Ahmedabad, after keep saying NO life finally give me a small lollypop and make me happy for just 8 months but not more, then searched and visited many companies in Pune, life this time gets very angry...and said NO from big mouth. Eventually I got a job in Pune against of life wish, but life is arrogant too it gave me better option of Mumbai. And my life starts with its new phase.
Yes my life seems like already had decided to pull me in the more learning environment. Short in six semester average by 0.25℅ is making me out of syllabus at the time of campus placement which later covered up with adding next two semesters. After being passed out in 2012, my slate was blank, I could create many structures in that like preparation for IT companies, government exams etc. Life also seeing your background in this settlement process, if your backend is strong enough of having established business family you don't need to worry about anything. Your skills, pressure, challenges will get change and your earnings can start easily. One boy has father who is working in jwellery shop, that boy after passing out start looking for a job. Eventually after not getting success in having a job he decided to join his father's business. While another boy whose father is himself a employee, he should have to have a job even his mood permit or not. Like wise in case of girls, I saw many girls who were searching a job with me at that time but when they get tired of initial failures or don't want to struggle more for job they have a very golden option to tell their parent to initiate her proposal for marriage. Many of such girls are get settled in abroad of-course without having a job, Also I saw a girls who belongs to well settled family, for them doing job is not a necessity but they have to be stand on their own, they do not get afraid of initial failures, they fight for it and ultimately they get what they want. We cant blame LIFE for it. Time and luck are two important aspects of life without which no one can survive even someone is billionare or a jobless. For my cases I searched job in Indore, life said NO, I then searched in Ahmedabad, after keep saying NO life finally give me a small lollypop and make me happy for just 8 months but not more, then searched and visited many companies in Pune, life this time gets very angry...and said NO from big mouth. Eventually I got a job in Pune against of life wish, but life is arrogant too it gave me better option of Mumbai. And my life starts with its new phase.
The Friends:
True Friends are like gift from a god given by a life. I am very blessed to have wonderful friends from every phase of life. The true friend will be one who teaches you, if you fall he will not give you any support to again stand but to give you encouragement so that you can stand of your own. I have no enemies in my life but that doesnt mean everybody is my friend. We got true friends in a running life which should meet certain criteria like thinking, respect, trust etc. I got my very good friends during school, college, in a travelling bus or even in a toilet who are still with me and with whom i can share anything. I have special friends as well to whom I even don't call them for 6 months to year but when I call they will be at my side. My father and one of my cousin is also belongs to my true friend list. Indeed I am blessed atleast from a friends point of view :)
The Love:
Love which make us feel different from the usual life. It fantasizes and make us become day dreamer. Like most of the people, my first love is my science teacher, she is very pretty, its from my 8th standard when I am turning to another life's phase. My concentration is no more in studies, my mind focusing more on her navel in a black saree rather than on her teaching amoeba-paramecium.
Proposed someone is always a full of fear. All the fears are different and fear before proposing any girl is different. We were in the 12th standard she was already a very good friend of mine, I taught her mathematics, she wrote my homeworks, we were in postoffice for submitting application of VITEE exam. She was also filling the same form because I insisted, I completely want her in my all life so were praying for both to be select in the same exam and enjoy college journey together as well. Finally with having courage, I proposed someone first time in a life in a post office, she took 4 days but then changed my life for next 4 years.
Love with your sisters are always special I have none in real but having a beautiful cousins and all are independent that's the best lesson I am getting from them. Even they got husband later it won't change themselves of achieving their own dreams. I am the youngest brother from the father's side but having two younger cousin sister from mother's side. All I getting till now is uniform love from them regardless of the condition I am in. The same way brothers loving they can't say a word but cant live without you
We can't love our parent more than they love us.
Life's basic rules which we are having with our usual friends or in a professional environment can't be apply on our family like give and take or tit-for-tat. For family our only intention is to selflessly give and give.
Life always want good for us, and we want something based on our temporary thinking. Sometimes both life and our thinking matches and we achieves that, whereas sometimes not and we falls. So in that moment we even think about to kill our 'life' but the beauty is, life is not an enemy it always pushes us, encourage us to the up only thing is sometime we listen, sometimes we not. In both the case life gives us a lesson.
Someone already become us a traveler , nobody ask our permission before putting us into this journey. Now it depends on us what we can do to this moment. Only thing we know is we will be in this journey until we reaches our destination, is a LIFE.